Alzheimer’s and Relationships

I think people with AlZheimer's can be very lonely especially living in nursing homes. I agree having a romantic relationship is ok as long as no one gets hurt physically or emotionally.Maybe being together will give each other what is needed now in both their lives.

As long as one person is not exploiting or forcing the other person into the relationship it seems within their rights to have one. If there is any element of abuse in the relationship it should not be permitted to continue and the administration and family would need to confront the issue. Sometimes due to extreme dementia and confusion a resident may initially be able to understand what they are doing but eventually lose that capacity. This may naturally end the relationship especially when communication becomes difficult or impossible with the severely demented person due to alzheimers. It is a sad and unfortunate occurance. Elderly person should be respected as much as possible even when they may have romantic relationships which may to others seem undesirable. A team approach by the nursing staff to evaluate the two persons involved should be conducted and documented routinely. This would protect all involved and monitor the situation for the benefit of the residents.  Relationships should not be encouraged nor discouraged but should be allowed as a resident right and can be an enjoyable experience for some and should be treated with dignity like any person would want. There is always the risk for emotional distress if things do not work out or deteriorate and the nursing staff and family should be supportive and understanding to the residents needs and offer caring and concern.