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Lessons Learned From 'The King's Speech'

Published March 1, 2011 10:56 PM by Glen McDaniel
This year's Best Picture winner at the Academy Awards (and nominated for twelve Oscars), was The King’s Speech, the story of King George VI of England who was suddenly forced to ascend the throne when his brother Edward VIII abdicates for love.

The king, the father of the current Queen Elizabeth II, and whose nickname was Bertie (Prince Albert) suffered from a severe stutter which made public speeches excruciatingly difficult. For those who have not seen the film, the story line is about how the reticent king, at the urging of his wife, engages a speech therapist who uses unorthodox methods to treat his speech impediment.

While I thoroughly enjoyed the film, it was painful for me to watch because I was a severe stutterer as a child. I had both physical and psychological responses as I suffered along with the character on the screen. It is difficult to see your life story relived so accurately. Luckily life sometimes imitates art: both Bertie and I overcame stuttering to the point of enduring public speaking.

I ruminated on the triumph during the days directly after seeing the film and, not unexpectedly, found some life’s lessons. Empathy is right at the top. In today’s political and business climate it is easy to say “I did it, so there is no excuse for you not performing exactly as I do.”

Good management suggests valuing diversity and emphasizing individual strengths. It would be boring and self-defeating if every member of a team (any team) had the same strengths, attitudes and roles. It might take communication to find out why an employee is not performing as expected.

Then there is resilience -- the ability to bounce back and be stronger as the result of adversity. Despite a severe case of nerves, Bertie gave a resounding, inspirational speech rallying the country to stand firm in the face of war.

I realized I always had something to say, so as a stutterer, I took up reading and writing and became pretty good at both. My imagination developed exponentially: I can still close my eyes and imagine just about any scene.

I went on to become editor of the school paper, represented the school in the national Spelling Bee, and joined the drama club. I also was the science representative on the school’s televised knowledge bowl. Talk about stress of public speaking! I still enjoy acting and public speaking.

Whenever a challenge appears in our personal or professional life we can use that challenge to learn coping skills and to even excel. Often the skills learned are transferable to other jobs and areas of life. The more you cope, the more you succeed, the more you learn to cope even more -- even in unrelated circumstances.

Then there is the lesson that no matter our circumstance, we can always find our voice. In our profession we complain a lot about the many things which are done to us. Then we sit back in acquiescence and self-pity. No matter what the challenge, it is us who give others permission to treat us a certain way. Not speaking up is often the loudest endorsement of the status quo. Not everyone is an orator, but we all have a voice. Use it!

6 comments

I welcome this blog so much. I am always telling my colleagues that we need to speak up. Those of us in profession for years dont know why we dont have rcognition yet. I remember when nurses envy us. Now is the other way around. We need to be willing to speak up and tell the world what we do and how important we are to healthcare as a whole.. We cant blame other people. Is like a parent speaking for  a child. We dont expect a stranger to speak up, right? It is up to each and every one of us.

Rosario CLS March 26, 2011 12:39 PM
Bayamon PR

This is a very nice article. Thanks for writing it. It is very encouraging and can be applied to so many many things in life.

J. Brown MT, Tech March 21, 2011 9:19 PM
Greenville SC

Wow. This is an amazing and inspirational blog. Thank you for inspiring us and thanks for sharing your personal story.

JT March 9, 2011 2:00 AM
Durham NC

It was a good movie and very inspirational in these times of silly movies. i wasnt even aware of that story before although I think I know history fairly well. Everyone knows about Edward marrying Wallis Simpson  the American but not that his brother was a severe stutterer.  Yes we definitaly need to speak up more. Very nice blog!

Dee W. MT (ASCP), Supervisor March 4, 2011 7:51 PM
Atlanta GA

I have heard Mr McDaniel speak at ASCLS national meeting and I thoroughly enjoyed him I would never tell he used to stutter. I also read everything of yours that I can find. You are very eloquent in the way you express yourself.  Thank you for reminding us that we can all speak up when we feel we are being wronged in some  way or when we think one voice will not make a difference. It definitely will. Thank you for this article.

Maria Martinez MT(ASCP) March 3, 2011 8:38 PM
San Antonio TX

This is so moving and well written. I understand exactly what you are saying and I agree that adversity can always be overcome. That's a lesson we can all learn.

Philip T MT (ASCP) March 2, 2011 6:10 PM

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