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"My Sister's Keeper"-A nurse's thoughts

Published July 23, 2009 12:39 PM by Lorettajo Kapinos

There are few TV shows or movies that I can watch and not writhe in my seat at the way medical drama is portrayed.  Even ER got on my nerves after a while; but My Sister's Keeper did not.  I was swept away by emotion and nearly forgot that I was a nurse watching a movie.  And, as an avid reader/aspiring writer, I also tend to notice the obscure things about storytelling as well.  But the only thing I noticed with this movie was the unbelievable way it made me cry.

 I am not a professional movie critic, but I do know the "look" that the dying wear.  Sofia Vassilieva, Kate, hit it right on.  Her eyes echoed the sentiment that many people today are unable to recognize.  She didn't say much, but that's because she didn't have to, or maybe, like those dying around us today, couldn't. 

Actually, silence was a powerful tool throughout the entire movie.  Many scenes were not heard. You watched them.  It reminded me of how often I avoid being quiet and that noise covers up so much that I don't want to feel. 

All in all, I was moved by the film. I liked the book but was angered at the ending.  The way the movie ended made me want to stand up and cheer.  I know many others felt differently.  I wonder why.  Maybe it's the characters we choose to identify with.  Or it could be our past experiences.  I'm not sure, but I'd love to hear how others felt.  Speak up and tell me which ending you liked better.    

2 comments

Brittany,

What great insight you have!  Thanks for sharing your thoughts.  I now look at the book with new eyes.

Loretta

Lorettajo Kapinos August 3, 2009 12:11 PM
Springfield MA

I actually liked both endings.  The book I like because it shocked me and I was blown away.  I also liked that it tore my heart apart.  It made me feel emotion that I don't usually feel and it was good to get to know that emotion.  That type of sadness.  I like the movie ending to because I think it was more appropriate than the book.  It was more expected and I felt like Kate was at peace with her life and knew it was time.  I am only 18 and am not a mother.  However when I watch movies and read books I tend to relate to the mother in the story.  I didnt cry through the movie of My Sisters Keeper.  And I was on Saras side througout it.  Like her I wanted to find a way for Kate to live.  Some may hate her for what she did to Anna...but she never wanted to hurt

Anna. Like she said...she would rather Anna go through that than bury her daughter.  She was in a tough place.  Because I related with her I noticed I didnt cry until she broke down in the movie.  When i saw her lean into Kate and sob, I started to.  I felt like Kate was my daughter and I was the one facing the cold truth.  This shows what a great actress Sofia was.

So, I liked both endings for different reasons.  I loved reading the book but the movie will be one I will never forget and will puchase when it comes out.  Great story and great actors.

Brittany July 24, 2009 2:29 PM

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    Lorettajo Kapinos, BSN, RN
    Occupation: Registered Nurse
    Setting: Western Massachusetts
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