Gender Differences with Patients
As a male, I guess I've experienced more issues with completing ADL's with some female patients. It makes me wonder if females have the same issue with some male patients. I can say I've had a few, but very few, males request another male complete personal care.
I always respect a patient's decision to have assistance from someone of their own gender. Modesty is often lost in places where there is continual flow of nurses, doctors, ministers, transporters, dietary staff, social workers, therapists, housekeeping, etc. etc. walking in to your room at any time to complete their job.
Many times happening upon the person in a "less than respectable" appearance.
If I remember back the first time as a new COTA being scheduled to complete a shower with a female patient. I know I was nervous, but approached the task as I had been instructed. Fortunately, she was quite open minded and was able to adapt her routine to become safer.
Toileting is almost another separate issue. It seems easier to maintain a bit more modesty during this task, at least depending on the person's abilities. When it comes to the hygiene issues, this is another place where it will depend on the person's level as to how much modesty will be maintained.
Finally dressing skills are the next area where it may be hard to maintain modesty. Sometimes I ask the Nursing Aides to dress the females in their bra and panties/brief then I take over in order to maintain some modesty. With higher level females, dressing behind the curtain or in the bathroom are options. However I never allow a patient to complete anything out of view that we had not already practiced in the gym. I like to use old clothing articles for practice of dressing skills. A large pair of shorts can go over the patient's pants or slippers easily enough. A spare pair of those slipper socks is nice to practice with the sock aid.
So have any of you had gender problems? Have you found any other solutions? What do you do if there is no one of the same gender available?
Until next time, hope all your thoughts are good,
Tim