Treating a Difficult Patient
"I'm paying to be here and be taken care of. You will do what I tell you."
It's bad enough we struggle for respect from physicians and occasionally other disciplines. I would say the majority of the population doesn't know what we do or the amount of education required to be a therapist. Usually if we work hard and prove ourselves, the respect follows. Or we generate recognition that what we do requires skill and training.
That wasn't true of a woman I attempted to work with last weekend. She had just arrived to the SNF and wanted to go to the bathroom. When I arrived, she was still on the gurney demanding a RW be given to her so she could walk to the bathroom. When I told her I wouldn't do that, I got the response quoted above. She seemed to think I was a servant, not a trained and skilled therapist.
At that point, I knew nothing about her because I'd been called to the room without explanation of what was needed. The only information in the old chart was her diagnosis of THR and ambulation of 15 feet with moderate assist. That's not a lot of information, certainly not enough for me to plop a RW in front of her and let her be off to the bathroom.
I tried to explain the process to her. This resulted in being told I was rude by both her and her son. Her son pulled me into the hall and threatened to have me fired on the spot as well as have my license removed. He actually behaved worse than that. Meanwhile his mother was still demanding to go to the bathroom very loudly. They both believed I should just deliver the RW and let her be.
The EMT person made things worse by saying the patient did it at the hospital. Yes, but did she do it correctly? The EMT had no way of knowing.
I was the bad guy because I wouldn't simply put the RW in front of the patient, but actually wanted to do an assessment and make sure everything was done safely and properly. The patient, her family, the EMT and nursing didn't seem to think any of that was necessary. The woman said she could do it. That was enough for them.
No one seemed to understand that PT is a skilled service. A PT can't just deliver a RW because the patient wants one; much less leave it in the room without assessing the patient. I made everyone angry because I wanted to do things the right way. The patient's demand was more important than using clinical judgment and making sure everything was safe.