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Ho Ho Ho…Who are you Listening to?

Published December 9, 2008 11:24 AM by Janey Goude
Financial gurus analyzed shopping trends following Black Friday. Shopping was up almost 4 percent from last year this same time. While "four" is a low number, I thought "up" was good.  I was wrong. 

Yes, it was an increase; but they warned, in these difficult economic times, we should not take the increase as a good sign. Retailers should not be pleased with their increased sales; this increase was actually an indicator of gloomy days ahead. You see, the only reason more dollars were spent on this Black Friday is because people completed the majority of their shopping on that day. According to the experts, now that the biggest sale day of the year was past, people were mostly through Christmas shopping.

This was great news for me. I'm not sure which I dislike more, shopping or crowds. So, with the rest of the US finished Christmas shopping, I went to the mall today to get some of my shopping done. The third Saturday before Christmas and I'm at the mall. Insane. But, if most everyone is done shopping, then no crowds!  Right?  Wrong! The mall was packed. Absolutely packed.

The shopping areas by the mall? Packed. 

Toys R Us? Packed! 

So, either people love to look for what they can't buy, or the few people who still have money to spend ALL came to South Carolina TODAY! Or maybe, just maybe, the gurus were wrong. 

The most valuable information I gained from my research class was not how to conduct research or how to write-up research. I learned how easily statistics can be manipulated. You can make the same number say a lot of different things. And if you speak well enough, loud enough, and long enough...enough people will believe you to effect a change, even if the change is based on a lie. 

Situations are rarely as they seem. People are quite often not as genuine as they come across. And when someone is trying to convince you to do something, it is usually for their own benefit. But sometimes even the good guy, with the best intentions, gets it wrong. We humans are an unpredictable lot, and that makes for a challenging variable. 

Today, I was reminded that those who are lauded as "experts" don't always have all the answers. Part of finding balance is using wisdom when we apply information. As we navigate the coming days, let's be careful whose voices we listen to. 

4 comments

I appreciate the great discussion here!  Interesting to see how different parts of the nation are responding, even how different people in same geographic region are responding.

For the record, I don't doubt we have fallen upon economic hard times.  My husband works for a trucking company and nearly every day he has a new story of a business laying off employees or shutting their doors permanently.  It is happening.  And it is heartwrenching to hear the stories of families who are being affected.

In good times and in bad times listening to the wrong voices can instill fear where it need not be.  That is true whether we are talking about our finances, our health, our relationships or our career.  We have to use wisdom.  But in bad times, when we are surrounded by misfortune, our minds can go quickly to fear and stay there.  During these moments those dangerous misleading voices can seem louder and more persuasive.  

So especially now it is particularly good to hear the positive...not to delude ourselves into a false sense of security but to protect ourselves from an unhealthy melancholy.  Proper perspective allows us to listen to everyone's voice with a sense of reason.

Janey Goude December 10, 2008 9:44 PM

This recession thing, I'm sure it's touching people everywhere but let me share a story from the past week.  We were in Oklahoma City enjoying a horse show and sale.  Sales would surely be down, right?  Instead a 2-year old quarter horse colt sold for $240,000 -- an all-time sales record for the association.  The arena was packed with buyers.  P. S. we didn't buy-we looked, which is a lot cheaper!

Ruth

Ruth December 10, 2008 8:44 AM
Lexington SC

I am certain you are right about NYC while you were there, but a friend of mine who lives in Manhatten was being transported through the main shopping district became so alarmed, she called me as soon as she arrived home.  She and the driver  were stunned at the small amount of shoppers and attributed it to the economy.  She and her husband entertains and have felt the brunt from lack of engagements and have taken note of a decrease of people eating in fine restaurants etc.  She called so we could pray together, not for our country to be blessed with the same favour as we have enjoyed for years and have mistakenly considered our luxuries for necessities.  It is painful now that everything is coming into proper perspective.  I believe in the end, we will be a more thankful, appreciative people and we will have our values in order which will be a blessing to our homes and children on up to our country and world.  

Nalley Osland, Retired December 10, 2008 7:26 AM
Lexington SC

Janey:

I am totally laughing at your blog tonight because the same thing happened to me this past weekend in NYC!!  My parents took my sister and me to "the big apple" for my 40th birthday.  My mom's logical thinking declared, "We should be able to see whatever plays we want, shop the streets, and sightsee with virtual ease around the dazed financial district and Broadway...the country is in a recession and there will be hardly anyone there!!"  

She could not have been more wrong!!  Plays were SOLD OUT, streets were PACKED, and it was elbow to elbow from the Statue of Liberty to the Empire State Building!!!  

If the USA is in a recession, someone forgot to tell the Americans!!  

Jill Blume December 9, 2008 11:31 PM

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