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Treat Yourself

Published June 30, 2010 11:42 AM by Janey Goude

"You deserve a reward!" That's a common refrain in our society today. We see it on TV commercials and billboards. We hear it on the radio. From frappuccinos to day spas, we are bombarded with options for treating ourselves to the rewards we deserve. I was recently challenged by a friend's comment about what passes for a reward. I began to rethink my definition of a "treat." I realized that what I have long considered treats may actually be harmful or cause more stress for me in the long run.

If I reward myself with an ice cream sundae, I'm filling my body with something that tastes good, but is ultimately a drain on my body's systems. There are very few nutrients in an ice cream sundae that actually treat my body well. (I have to admit I'm still in the rethinking process on this. I said I was challenged, not changed!).

If I spend an afternoon at the spa, I'll be relaxed for a few hours. However, I may spend the rest of the month fretting over my finances. Of course, there is nothing wrong with an occasional ice cream or massage. But, very often we choose our "treats" based on immediate satisfaction without consideration to the long-term effect. In the end, the rewards we choose may not be treating ourselves well at all.

So, how do you reward yourself? Maybe you have just the replacement for our sundaes and spa days!

4 comments

Time (or rather stopping to soak it in) and Silence.  What extraordinary treats!  Dean and Ruth, thanks for reminding us that the best rewards in life can be free - financially and calorically!

And, Lisa, I couldn't agree more - when the money is there, nothing beats a good rub down!  I look forward to my birthday massage every year.  A bit pricier way to stop and savor the silence, but it does feel so good :-)  And counting it as a present takes the guilty out of the pleasure.

Thanks everyone for sharing your rewards.

Janey Goude July 1, 2010 7:53 PM

I love, love, love spa days!

Since most of the work that I do is quite physical- involving lifting a lot of "max assist" patients, spending the whole day on my feet- I need a chance for my own muscles to relax.  The cost is definitely worth it.

Lisa West July 1, 2010 12:25 PM

Silence is my greatest treat.  Sitting in my quiet backyard, listening to the birds and trying to get my head to stop spinning.  Trying to relax,  trying to pray, trying to rethink priorities.  Do you know how hard it is to find silence???

Ruth June 30, 2010 7:49 PM

I do something that is considered impossible in most work places, home lives, and in our society.

I stop.

I notice the smell of the fresh cut grass, I chat with a patient just to say "Hello!", I'll pet a stray cat, and I always (and I mean always) see the sunset. I treat myself to time. It is the one commodity that you can't go buy more of.

Oh, I also have a dry martini every Friday night. I'm good but I'm no angel ;-)

Dean

Dean Metz June 30, 2010 2:33 PM

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