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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://community.advanceweb.com/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Bringing Balance to our People-Pleasing</title><link>http://community.advanceweb.com/blogs/pt_4/archive/2009/06/03/bringing-balance-to-our-people-pleasing.aspx</link><description>"It's important to have a little guilt in life. And feeling bad can accomplish a heap of good." --Dr. Kevin Leman, Have a New Kid by Friday In this excerpt Dr. Leman is speaking to parents who prevent children from suffering the consequences of their</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP2 (Debug Build: 61120.2)</generator><item><title>re: Bringing Balance to our People-Pleasing</title><link>http://community.advanceweb.com/blogs/pt_4/archive/2009/06/03/bringing-balance-to-our-people-pleasing.aspx#39681</link><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 22:37:56 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">06d5312c-37b9-406e-be84-460d8d21f4fc:39681</guid><dc:creator>Cecile</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I needed to read your post today. I always have to watch myself in that area... it's a good reminder that if we people-please, we are robbing someone else of their dignity/ability to handle the problem themself. &lt;/p&gt;
</description></item><item><title>re: Bringing Balance to our People-Pleasing</title><link>http://community.advanceweb.com/blogs/pt_4/archive/2009/06/03/bringing-balance-to-our-people-pleasing.aspx#38836</link><pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 01:29:54 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">06d5312c-37b9-406e-be84-460d8d21f4fc:38836</guid><dc:creator>Ruth</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;This is an excellent point. &amp;nbsp;As Mothers, especially, we want to fix the problems for our family. &amp;nbsp;We can't fix someone else. &amp;nbsp;We can listen and make suggestions if we are asked. &amp;nbsp;Dealing directly with one's own problem is the only way to grow.&lt;/p&gt;
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