Social Distortion, Part I

When you're working twelve-hour shifts, it can be difficult to have any kind of social life outside of the hospital.  Consequently, we may find ourselves drawn to others we work with.  This might not be so bad if it's the cute OR tech who we see periodically as they drop off blood gases.  It becomes more tense and dramatic (and often exhilarating) when it's someone in our department. 

Our sense of social possibilities becomes distorted the more we work, go home and linger until we go back to work.  If you're considering any kind of involvement with someone within your department, weigh what it will do to and for your career motivation.

In my career, I've seen interdepartmental marriages and liaisons work for a while, only to end in divorce or a drama that could have been broadcast on COPS.  Working with someone does not make them a good candidate, although they may be. 

It might be motivating to get up and bounce into work knowing you will see someone who will offer you the initial stages of having a social life.  It's also very convenient, because when the workday is over, you can go home and collapse. 

Potential problems can bloom like violets in the springtime, and if you're new to this aspect of the field, you can benefit from some guidance.

Stay tuned as I explore this further in my next post!