The Feeding Challenge
During my time in early intervention, I've often heard parents say in distress, "I never thought feeding my child would be so difficult." I hear that and comments like it and know that it's true.
Eating is such a natural, normal part of life, right? We eat to survive. We eat to live. Family mealtimes can be fun, social and tasty. All of these are veritable; however if your child is struggling with texture sensitivities, reflux or is or has ever been tube-fed, eating can be an absolute chore that plagues the family every day for every meal.
Unfortunately, when I went to undergrad and graduate school for speech-language pathology, feeding children was not a huge part of the curriculum. We studied dysphagia and other various disorders as well as oral motor dysfunction; however it was usually centered on adults with brain-injury, dementia, stroke/paralysis, etc. Although the anatomical mechanisms and overall goals may be similar across age levels, the treatment techniques needed to address feeding issues with these two populations can be very different.
When I was hired at my current position, I was upfront and honest with my future boss, letting her know that I had very little feeding experience, but I was willing to be taught. However, I quickly discovered that despite the fact that I, myself, eat several times a day and have been doing so for YEARS, I had A LOT to learn about feeding infants and toddlers that either had no interest in eating OR were physically unable to do so.
However, thanks to the tremendous team of individuals I work with and an open mind, I am happy to say that many of my "feeding kids" have achieved significant success through our therapy. What I also realized about myself is that I truly enjoy it! I love to cook and I love feeding my husband, friends and family, so as I began working with these children I understood that what I really wanted to do was not only teach them how to eat but how to ENJOY eating. Mealtime can be delicious and fun and I want the children I work with to experience both!
In my next post, I will share some of the many tips and tools I've incorporated into my Early Intervention feeding routine. In addition, please write in with your questions and solutions regarding the many challenges that our little ones face in the area of feeding. Over 400 individuals have visited this blog in the past week, so know that your questions and answers will be heard!